x=y
let A={1,2,3,4}
so R can have either (11) or (22) or (33) or (44) or {(11),(22)}.......{(11),(22),(33),(44)}
@saxena0612 yes it only taking diagonal elements and all possible combination of diagonal are valid relation
4 diagonal elements have only 16 unique combination possible
and it is not reflexive as question say
(x,y) belongs to S implies (x=y)
if (x,y) does not belong then also its is ok