For a relation to be reflexive on a set A, all pairs of the form (a,a) should be present in the relation. Let's consider $ A = \big \{1,2,3 \big\}$ here. Then for a relation to be reflexive all pairs $(1,1) , (2,2)$ and $(3,3)$ must be present in the relation.
So, $R_{1} = \big \{(1,1),(2,2),(3,3) \big\}$, $R_{2} = \big \{ (1,1),(2,2),(3,3),(1,3),(2,3) \big \}$ are reflexive while $R_{3} = \big \{(1,1),(2,2) \big\}$ and $R_{4} = \phi $ are not.
And for a relation to be symmetric there is a condition that if $a^Rb$, then $b^Ra$ $\forall a,b \in A$, Now, In case of relation $\phi$, the first condition i.e., $a^Rb$ is not met, So we don't proceed further to check whether $b^Ra$ (or) not.
And Similarly In case of transitive relation if $a^Rb$ and $b^Rc$ then only we check whether $a^Rc$ (or) not. If the first two conditions are not met, there is no need to check whether $a^Rc$ (or) not.
Thus, relation $\phi $ is Symmetric, Transitive but not reflexive.