Let two digit number be $xy,$ its decimal value is $10x+y.$ According to the question,
$(10x+y)\:(x+y) = 144$
$\implies 10x^{2} + 10xy + xy + y^{2} = 144$
$\implies 10x^{2} + 11xy + y^{2} = 144 \quad \rightarrow(1)$
Interchanging the digits, we get $yx$ and its decimal value is $10y + x.$
$(10y+x)\:(x+y) = 252 $
$\implies 10xy + 10y^{2} + x^{2} + xy = 252$
$\implies 10y^{2} + x^{2} + 11xy = 252\quad \rightarrow(2)$
Subtract the equation,$(2) - (1)$, we get
$10y^{2} + x^{2} + 11xy - (10x^{2} + 11xy + y^{2} ) = 252 - 144$
$\implies 9y^{2} - 9x^{2} = 108$
$\implies y^{2} - x^{2} = 12$
$\implies (y+x)\:(y-x) = 12 \quad \rightarrow (3)$
We can do the factor of $12:1,2,3,4,6,12$
Now, we can take each pair one by one and see which one is satisfies.
$(y+x)\:(y-x) = 1 \times 12$
$\implies y + x = 1\:\&\: y-x = 12$
it is not possible and vice-versa is also not possible. Because $x\neq y,$ we can't get $y + x = 1$ and we have maximum digit $9,$ we can't get $y-x = 12.$
Again, $(y+x)\:(y-x) = 2 \times 6$
$\implies y + x = 2\:\&\: y-x = 6$
$\implies x = -2,\;y=4.$ It is not possible.
Another way to write, $(y+x)\:(y-x) = 6 \times 2$
$\implies y + x = 6:\&\: y-x = 2$
$\implies x = 2,\;y=4.$ It is possible.
Again, $(y+x)\:(y-x) = 3 \times 4$
$\implies y + x = 3\:\&\: y-x = 4$
$\implies x = -\dfrac{1}{2},\;y=\dfrac{7}{2}.$ It is not possible. Because digits are negative and not a natural number.
Another way,
$(y+x)\:(y-x) = 4 \times 3$
$\implies y + x = 4\:\&\: y-x = 3$
$\implies x = \dfrac{1}{2},\;y=\dfrac{7}{2}.$ It is not possible. Because digits are not a natural number.
$\therefore$ Only one case is possible, $x=2,\:y=4$
Hence, sum of digit of $N$ is $ = x + y = 2 + 4 = 6.$
So, the correct answer is $(B).$