Given the relation $R=\{(n, m)|n, m \in \mathbb{Z}| n,|\neq| m \mid\}$. Which of the following statements about $R$ is correct?
- $R$ is not an equivalence relation because it is not reflexive or transitive
- $R$ is not an equivalence relation because it is not antisymmetric
- $R$ is not an equivalence relation because it is not symmetric
- $R$ is an equivalence relation