There are a lot of questions that have not come in the exam ever but use the concept coming in exam
This means they are relevant
i need to go through such questions or not
Go through means? If they are relevant you should be knowing how to solve them. Now if you know how to solve there is no need to solve every question - just enough solving to ensure no boredom.
Preparing for gate is really very extensive
Around 10 subjects in extensive. But if you study properly and in correct way it is enjoyable and fun. By the time you start practicing full length papers you should have covered all possible type of questions that can be asked (in normal sense) and all portions.
i don't wanna waste my time on irrelevant things
Spending more time on standard books is always worth. But once you get hold of a topic then you can skip.
I am pretty much clear on theory part though it is just about solving numericals
Thats what most people think after bachelors. But if you can't solve numericals in GATE, 90% of time it is due to lack of proper theory. When you read a book you won't be getting exactly what the author meant- that's why they put exercise questions so that one gets completely thorough with the topics. Usually the '*' (difficult) questions are not needed for GATE but one can try them if interested.
Prev. year GATE questions are a good idea for what and how questions will be asked.