A = {1,2,3,4}
We have to satisfy (a,b) R (c,d) iff a+b=c+d.
for reflexive relation (1,2)R(1,2) satisfies a+b=a+b , Similarly other elements also satisfies reflexivity
for symmetric relation (1,4)R(2,3)=(2,3)R(1,4), So it satisfies symmetric
for transitive relation , no such element exists. So, it satisfies transitivity also.
So,it satisfies equivalence relation