$$
(a, b) R(c, d) \Rightarrow 3 a d-7 b c \in \text { even }
$$
For reflexive
$$
(a, b) R(a, b) \Rightarrow 3 a b-7 b a=-4 a b \in \text { even }
$$
For symmetric
$$
(a, b) R(c, d)
$$
$$
=3 a d-7 b c=\underbrace{(7 a d-3 b c)}_{\text {even }}+(-4 a d-4 b c)
$$
then
$$
(c, d) R(a, b)=3 b c-7 a d
$$
$\in$ even
Now check for transitive
$$
\begin{aligned}
& (a, b) R(c, d) \text { and }(c, d) R(e, f) \text { then }(a, b) R(e, f) \\
& 3 a d-7 b c=2 m \quad \Rightarrow(2,5) R(6,8) \text { and } \\
& 3 c f-7 e d=2 n \quad(6,8) R(9,4) \\
& \text { then } 3 a f-7 e b \neq \text { even } \notin(2,5) R(9,4)
\end{aligned}
$$