$$
\begin{aligned}
& A=\{1,2,3,4,5\} \\
& x R y \Leftrightarrow 4 x \leq 5 y \\
& 4 x \leq 5 y \quad \Rightarrow \quad \frac{x}{y} \leq \frac{5}{4} \quad \Rightarrow \frac{x}{y} \leq 1.25 \\
& R=\{(1,2),(1,3),(1,4),(1,5),(1,1),(2,2),(2,3),(2,4), \\
& (2,5),(3,3),(3,4),(3,5),(4,4),(4,5),(5,4),(5,5)\} \\
& \therefore \quad n(R)=m=16
\end{aligned}
$$
Elements to be added to $R$ to make it symmetric
$(1,2) \in R \quad \Rightarrow \quad(2,1)$ should be added
Similarly, $(3,1),(4,1),(5,1),(3,2),(4,2),(5,2),(4,3),(5,3)$
$\therefore 9$ elements should be added
$$
\begin{array}{ll}
\therefore & n=9 \\
\therefore & m+n=25
\end{array}
$$